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justgowithit March 23rd, 2012 23:55 GMT Print this post
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Quoted from: knowitall, March 23rd, 2012 06:06  GMT
Toneib, I am shocked and surprised that you are scolding me!  you an anonymous person, I think i am way too old for this, no?  

I completly agree with MustangDad.  guestplayers probably, tryouts not yet happened, i get that...

It is "justgowithit" who i believe is out of line.  what does he gain by dragging this players personal information onto the forum?  talking about the mom, talking about their finances. Oh, but he didn't name any names so its ok, and i guess this is all public knowledge, so this is ok too. why bash somebody for leaving a team?  from what I understand SM knew before hand that this player was not going to stay for another season....it was no surprise he was told by the parents ahead of time!! hello!!!  and for your information "justgowithit" when was the last time you asked a mechanic how much money they made?  that $150 an hour you pay to get your car fixed goes to the company, not even 1/4 of it goes to pay the mechanic...
it's sad that people such as "justgowithit" and "the real shimpy" have to berate people..why?  to make themselves feel better..


NO one is berating anyone here except for Know it all - well lets do some simple math-  $150 x .25 = about $40 per hour plus benefits = $83,200 per year plus overtime puts a union mechanic at over $100K per year. That seems like a pretty good living... enough said!

Was the player not going to stay due to parents insisting on coach cutting the Rec type players so team would win win win? This opens up an interesting discussion: Should Club coaches cut players they have coached since they were youngsters if they are rec type players or is it fair to the rest of the Club team to keep the rec players on?
Opinions are like ...... Everyone has one.
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zona4eva March 24th, 2012 00:34 GMT Print this post
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Being a "rec" player and being at the bottom of a solid ECNL team is a whole different ball game. The coach can do what he or she feels is right for the team. If someone doesn't like it, then leave. Too many people want to "ruin" that team on the way out and that's where it gets ugly.
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knowitall March 24th, 2012 02:06 GMT Print this post
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Quoted from: justgowithit, March 23rd, 2012 23:41  GMT
Luv all the comments - I am a single mom with no opinion one way or the other.


Ok SM
"...never speak out of fear..."
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anybodysgame March 24th, 2012 02:44 GMT Print this post
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Quoted from: justgowithit, March 23rd, 2012 23:41  GMT
Luv all the comments - I am a single mom with no opinion one way or the other. However, I do live within my means, I understand how to budget and I always pay my way. If people are living in multi million dollar homes and driving expensive cars and can't meet their obligations - they need to downsize and live within their means and stop mooching - Entitlement attitudes are just wrong!
Secondly, I have many freinds who are parents/coaches and I have made observations. The information I shared is coming directly from them. MVLA mom seems a little preturbed about her precious MVLA players and her coach (which I have the upmost respect for). Why don't you ask the MVLA parents who's players played for St. Francis High School about the SF coaches calling out this particular person last year due to all the negativety by the mom. Pattern?- Enough Said! Thirdly, word from DeAnza families is they feel bad for the player but consensus is player should have been cut 6 months ago due to negativity of mom. Quite happy now and team can move forward with positive energy! Imagine- a Free ride, player played the entire game, coach that was nothing but good to them, college exposure to 100+ college coaches.... What more can a family ask for? Yet with all these wonderful things happening still Ungrateful ..... who is shameful now?
It is ashame about certain parents living vicarisouly through their kids. It's not like there is big future after college for a woman soccer player.......


why do you care?  If you have no opinion one another then maybe you shouldn't say anything!  your posts are very pointed and angry, you are obviously a DeAnza parent. If anything, you should be happy that this family has moved on.  Great!  your kid can play as much as she wants! maybe you can get some therapy and get over it...
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Mustang Dad March 24th, 2012 03:05 GMT Print this post
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The real shame is when people find pleasure coming onto a public message board ******* bent on publicly tearing down a 15 year old girl and her mom.  What's your motive here, gowithit? Does it somehow make you feel better about yourself?
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MVLA Mom March 24th, 2012 15:25 GMT Print this post
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Quoted from: justgowithit, March 23rd, 2012 23:41  GMT
The information I shared is coming directly from them. MVLA mom seems a little preturbed about her precious MVLA players and her coach (which I have the upmost respect for). Why don't you ask the MVLA parents who's players played for St. Francis High School about the SF coaches calling out this particular person last year due to all the negativety by the mom.
I highly doubt that you are hearing anything directly from MVLA. Again, if it wasn't the MVLA coach that told you she didn't take the player due to the mom ... then it's just heresay. I think you meant "perturbed".  Yeah, no. Not me. This is a good team and you're not gonna drag our players or our coach into any grudge you have against this mom. Oh...darn, I almost forgot... I am a St. Francis parent. In fact I am the parent-manager.  The player was not on Varsity last year and had no beef with the coach. She was an outstanding JV player and was given team awards for her play.  Justgowithit - I think you need to find another hobby.  Your fact digging skills stink. Maybe a job for the National Enquirer?  Your mind can run wild with the stories there.  

Just leave this player/family alone.  You may recall that a family was taken to Santa Clara County Superior Court for harrassing a family on this forum.  Be careful what you say.  Why don't you turn your abundance of energy on positively contributing to this board and talking about the great games you watched this weekend?  Be  the first to post scores or let us know how your daughter's team performed.  Stay constructive not  "destructive".  Enjoy the game.
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zona4eva March 24th, 2012 17:36 GMT Print this post
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In 2 years all of the girls will be in college and hopefully playing. Enjoy the last 2 years watching them play youth soccer and don't worry about all this other nonsense that has been discussed. All the players/teams that are discussed are very good. Let them be great and enjoy the games!
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justgowithit March 24th, 2012 18:44 GMT Print this post
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For what's it worth I am not harassing the player or the family- this your opinion and everyone is entitled to their opinions as am I. I have repeatedly said there are two sides to every story. It's ashame we can't express our opinions on here without being attacked. I wish the family and the player nothing but the best. Let's move on to some other issues.
Opinions are like ...... Everyone has one.
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Tamarindo March 27th, 2012 19:36 GMT Print this post
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SM and the Force will sort it out. His '92 team currently all play D1 college ball and most contribute significantly. As I remember, that team had a brutal merge as well and there was some fall out as well.

Once the dust settled and some were moved off the team, they went on to 5 state cup finals, 1 surf cup final, 2 West Regional finals and a national championship.

Hang in there De Anza, it will work out for you, especially if the parents are helpful versus disruptive.
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zona4eva March 27th, 2012 21:46 GMT Print this post
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DA will be just fine. That being said, the 92 team is a whole different ball game. That team was scary talented and this current team isn't near that level so tough to compare. Most good teams go through some sort of "drama" and they are still good because they find a way to get through. I expect this to be the same situation.

Your last sentence is the big one. It's important everyone is on the same page and trying to reach similar goals.
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